Most of us know at least one person who is a “Debbie Downer”. They can be in the middle of the best party in the world…. and still find a way to bring up some “bad thing, memory, person, etc.” from 5, 10, 15, 20 years ago!
What happens is…. they put themselves right back in that “bad moment” and miss out on what’s going on around them “now”. They miss the opportunity to create great memories in the “Now”.
The time they took to tell the “bad” story (that you’ve heard a million times already!) could have been spent looking at all the good that is going on around them “Now”!
Life is meant to be lived NOW!
Enjoy the party!